Saturday, January 4, 2014

What can i do to improve my marriage?

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My husband and i have had some issues in the past with me trusting him, i am now getting over it and trying to move on, what can i do to make our communication better, as well as control the arguing...ANy help would be great.Also what does the bible say abt the woman's role in marriage?


Answer
I understand... How ever to Forgive, you also will need to let go of it. Why contiune to dewl on it when inside it causes you added stress.


Try going to church, it will help, TRUST me. Ive already went through this.

READ the Word daily it WILL HELP, however, the enemy will strike at you and try to seperate you from your husband.
GOOD LUCK!!

Colossians 3:13
Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. (NIV)




1.Encourage your spouse to be their best without belittling them for things you wish they would do better.
2. Never stop playing together. A good pillow fight or being dumped in a pool by your spouse just might start a healing.
3. Purpose to grow old together. Many couples by not purposing to grow together, grow apart. That couple in the mall, purposed to be there together.
4. Live as if today was your last day on earth. That will bring about a greater appreciation for your relationship. I got that revelation on 9-11. There was so much choas in our city that day and I could not find my husband. Cell phones were deluged so I could not get a call through and all offices downtown had been evacuated. It was a mess. I remembered that moring being upset with him about something and had left the house without saying a kind word. So when I could not find him I was a greivous mess. If he had gotten hurt or was in an accident due to all the choas, I would have died. That day taught me that life is to short not to enjoy your spouse and never leave without a blessing. So from that day til now my life has changed and I never leave him without a kind word.
5. Purpose to outdo them in good actions even if they act a fool. I just believe that eventually it will pay off.
6. Always tell them you love them, especially when they make you mad.
7. Keep folks out of your marrige.
8. Never miss a birthday or anniversary.
9. Interrupt your year with random gifts. It can be as simple as a love card or as elaborate as a vacation. The more interruptions the better.
10. Thank God for your spouse and ask him to help you deal with them with all of their idosyncracies. In marriage, itâs like what Forrest Gump said, life is a box of chocolates, you never know what you get. There are so many hidden mysteries to your spouse, that is why God gave you a lifetime to figure it out.

In the interest of equality, please define the characteristics of a female chauvinist pig?




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Or provide an example, if you like.


Answer
1. Women who label other women as sIuts because they're pretty.

2. Women who label other women as sIuts because they actually enjoy sex.

3. Women who label other women as sIuts just because.

4. Women who say things like,"Eww.. I don't want to have a daughter because girls are so much easier to raise".

5. Women who say things like, "Ewww...I don't hang out with girls because they're so catty and jealous".

6. Women like Brooke Hogan who imply that females should not be in politics because they get PMS (because we all know that 61-year-old Hilary Clinton is REALLY dealing with PMS).

7. Women who call other women b!tches just for fun.

8. The entire cast of every season of "The Bad Girls Club".

9. Women who seek spousal support because, God forbid they work to maintain their own lifestyle.

10. Women who brazenly go up to guys in clubs and say, "Buy me a drink?" Either buy your own drinks or let somone offer to buy you one.

11. Women who expect gifts for anniversaries, Valentine's Day, birthdays and Christmas, but don't buy their partners anything in return.

12. Women who get mad because a guy won't hop out of his seat for them.

Voice of Reality: I didn't realize that it was 'whimsical' to call members of your own gender b!tches and sIuts just because you don't like them. What you don't realize is that, things that seem petty to you, escalate into women not voting for another woman because, "She's too pretty", or women treating their daughters llike crap because of their own innate hatred of their own gender.

Although, I do agree that RADICAL feminists are quite chauvinistic.




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