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Jason J
I feel so regretful. I failed to give a gift to a woman for her birthday. We were not able to meet up on her birthday because she needed to work that day. But a couple of weeks later I didn't give her a gift when we met for a dinner. I feel so regretful. How can I make up for my fault? Does she possibly feel disappointed?
Answer
This depends on the type of relationship you two have. If she's a friend it will be easier to fix this. If she's a lover, oh boy! Have you seen her since you had dinner with her and how long ago was that? If she's not answering your calls or dodging you she's really ticked off.
Call her up, apologize and tell her you had a lot of things going on and how bad you feel about missing her birthday. Ask her if there's anyway you can make it up to her. Don't promise you'll do ANYTHING she wants. Don't sound so desperate. Even if she is ticked off she will find some way for you to make it up. She won't pass up the opportunity. Call her a couple of days after you've discussed the matter with her to see what she wants to do. She may hem and haw and say it's too late, then soften and tell you that you really don't have to do anything. Then surprise her with a bouquet of flowers, don't go overboard but nothing cheap either. Something you can hide behind your back and present to her or have them sent to her work.
Next year, make a huge note for yourself to send her something for her birthday without having to meet up in case that doesn't work out.
This works for me!
This depends on the type of relationship you two have. If she's a friend it will be easier to fix this. If she's a lover, oh boy! Have you seen her since you had dinner with her and how long ago was that? If she's not answering your calls or dodging you she's really ticked off.
Call her up, apologize and tell her you had a lot of things going on and how bad you feel about missing her birthday. Ask her if there's anyway you can make it up to her. Don't promise you'll do ANYTHING she wants. Don't sound so desperate. Even if she is ticked off she will find some way for you to make it up. She won't pass up the opportunity. Call her a couple of days after you've discussed the matter with her to see what she wants to do. She may hem and haw and say it's too late, then soften and tell you that you really don't have to do anything. Then surprise her with a bouquet of flowers, don't go overboard but nothing cheap either. Something you can hide behind your back and present to her or have them sent to her work.
Next year, make a huge note for yourself to send her something for her birthday without having to meet up in case that doesn't work out.
This works for me!
What is a unique Christmas gift for the guy that has everything?
Fancy
I am having a hard time trying to come up with a unique gift for my husband, who pretty much has everything. A creative gift, like a lobster-gram or something like that. He is creative, fun, wacky, an avid outdoorsman (he has ALL of the gear) into wine and food. Please don't say a gift certificate. He can be kinda picky too.
Answer
Check out WineEnthusiast.com, they have all kinds of fun stuff for wine lovers.
I don't know where you live, but you could get him passes to a nearby ski mountain? OR tickets to a show or concert he'd like? It's hard to say without knowing more about him, cause the guys who have everything are the worst, you really have to pick at the intimate things you know about them to come up with something good. I have the same issue with my boyfriend. Order stuff from Omaha steaks.
I know my local newspaper is sponsoring a wine of the month club, maybe you could find one near you to join?
Check out WineEnthusiast.com, they have all kinds of fun stuff for wine lovers.
I don't know where you live, but you could get him passes to a nearby ski mountain? OR tickets to a show or concert he'd like? It's hard to say without knowing more about him, cause the guys who have everything are the worst, you really have to pick at the intimate things you know about them to come up with something good. I have the same issue with my boyfriend. Order stuff from Omaha steaks.
I know my local newspaper is sponsoring a wine of the month club, maybe you could find one near you to join?
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