Bentley
My brother is setting me up with someone from his bank. We have plans to meet up this weekend. As a nice gesture, I wanted to bring her flowers and burn her a CD of some R & B and some songs I think she'd like. Is that cheesy? what are some other ideas? She's a girly girl. She's 21 and I'm 26....
Answer
first date/blind date no gift
it is not cheesy but you do not even know her
don't appear desperate
just be yourself - nervous albeit -but she is probably nervous too
If she is rude or inconsiderate or ignores you or acts distracted; do not do the same back to her be considerate and ask if she would like to leave early or go back to ______________ make sure she is safely inside her car, house, apt, before you leave.
Do not let her walk alone to her car in any case.
if you do not hit it off you still be the PERFECT gentleman [girls talk and your behavior is also going to be a reflection of your brother] be very respectful and courteous, and try to make a new friend not girlfriend
if she is a knock out compliment the clothes or hair not her looks,
and if she is showing cleavage don't stare [this is difficult to do, but just don't do it] look her in the eyes
everyone has good features and qualities be honest and genuine
If on the date and you [both] are having fun you might buy her something small, a trinket or something, but nothing too expensive
if you have a second date - maybe take something you cut from the yard or neighbors flower bed nothing expensive but nice/pretty/casual
if you talked about music at all after you met each other maybe then the cd of the music you like or if you are both into music suggest for the third date that she can make you a cd of music she likes herself and you do a cd of music you like for her
this will give you something to talk about at least
hope this helps
first date/blind date no gift
it is not cheesy but you do not even know her
don't appear desperate
just be yourself - nervous albeit -but she is probably nervous too
If she is rude or inconsiderate or ignores you or acts distracted; do not do the same back to her be considerate and ask if she would like to leave early or go back to ______________ make sure she is safely inside her car, house, apt, before you leave.
Do not let her walk alone to her car in any case.
if you do not hit it off you still be the PERFECT gentleman [girls talk and your behavior is also going to be a reflection of your brother] be very respectful and courteous, and try to make a new friend not girlfriend
if she is a knock out compliment the clothes or hair not her looks,
and if she is showing cleavage don't stare [this is difficult to do, but just don't do it] look her in the eyes
everyone has good features and qualities be honest and genuine
If on the date and you [both] are having fun you might buy her something small, a trinket or something, but nothing too expensive
if you have a second date - maybe take something you cut from the yard or neighbors flower bed nothing expensive but nice/pretty/casual
if you talked about music at all after you met each other maybe then the cd of the music you like or if you are both into music suggest for the third date that she can make you a cd of music she likes herself and you do a cd of music you like for her
this will give you something to talk about at least
hope this helps
gift cards first dates?
jesus Z
i was just wondering if its ok to use gift cards and coupons on first dates? i usually dont but recently a really close friend asked me
Answer
Never ever use coupons, you'll just look cheap.
A gift card may be ok, just make sure its not too odvious that it's a gift card. Some look just like credit cards and you can get away with using without your date catching on.
Never ever use coupons, you'll just look cheap.
A gift card may be ok, just make sure its not too odvious that it's a gift card. Some look just like credit cards and you can get away with using without your date catching on.
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