Savannah t
I left my husband after 2 years of progressively worsening verbal and financial abuse. Alcoholism is what made him this way. After leaving ( I was going to divorce him, this wasn't just a separation for me) we talked and he said he would do anything to keep our relationship. since we are married, I told him what I would need or what, and to be honest for the last 2 months, he has done everything I have asked of him and more.
Even though he is doing all I ask, I am just not into him anymore. After being treated so poorly, I guess I put a wall around my heart. I really don't care if the marriage ends or not and I am kind of just here because of obligation. I love him, but I am no longer in love with him.
I am willing to stay in this relationship to see if I can get my old feelings back. If he continues to do the things he has been doing, its possible, however, I have been thinking about everything and to be honest, even if he does everything forever, I still kind of don't wan him anymore (but of course this is how I feel now)
I decided that if by December 2011 I still am not back in love and have no desire to stay in this relationship that i will ask for a divorce. do you think thats enough time? Would you wait longer? Shorter? Need some feedback.
Answer
Woman to woman let me tell you "You have a gift" in your marriage. Do you have any idea how many men could care less about mending their marriages? He obviously has gone above and beyond as you clearly stated. So, now... Now that he has you need to remember the grass is not always greener on the other side.
You owe it to yourself YES yourself to give it another try. And you also need not put a time frame on it, "because that wont work either". If you cannot do it from your heart and it be your WHOLE heart then do him and you both a favor and don't.
I am simply telling you though think before you quit on him and your marriage.
Woman to woman let me tell you "You have a gift" in your marriage. Do you have any idea how many men could care less about mending their marriages? He obviously has gone above and beyond as you clearly stated. So, now... Now that he has you need to remember the grass is not always greener on the other side.
You owe it to yourself YES yourself to give it another try. And you also need not put a time frame on it, "because that wont work either". If you cannot do it from your heart and it be your WHOLE heart then do him and you both a favor and don't.
I am simply telling you though think before you quit on him and your marriage.
Good romantic comedy movies 2005-2011?
Kevin Bril
can someone please give me a list of good romantic comedy from 2005-2011? like these movies that ive seen:
date night
killers
the switch
valentines day
the bounty hunter
the proposal
shes out of my league
the ugly truth
17 again
national lampoons van wilder
just friends
THE CHANGE-UP
SHE'S OUT OF MY LEAGUE
just go with it
life as we know it
the 40-year old virgin
500 days of summer
when in rome
hes just not that into you
4 christmases
crazy stupid love
thanks alot in advance, 5 stars for best answer
Answer
~Flipped, its such a beautiful story, i cant really explain it but ill give you the link (2010)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RDlXdujRSâ¦
~It's a Boy Girl Thing: Sworn enemies find themselves in each other's bodies, and use this to ruin each other's lives.
~Something Borrowed: Friendships are tested and secrets come to the surface when terminally single Rachel falls for Dex, her best friend Darcy's fiancé (2011)
~Letters To Juliet: (2010)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4AmB8spntâ¦
~She's the Man: When her brother decides to ditch for a couple weeks in London, Viola heads over to his elite boarding school, disguises herself as him, and proceeds to fall for one of her soccer teammates. (2006)
~Chalet Girl: (2010)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4q5Wdni-Hâ¦
~Prom (2011)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4YziwpXjYâ¦
~Just Married: A young newlywed couple honeymoon in Europe, where obstacles challenge their ability to sustain the marriage. (2003)
~Clueless: Clueless: Jane Austen's Emma meets Beverley Hills 90210 in US West Coast teen lifestyle parody. its old but really good (1996)
~Going the Distance: A romantic comedy centered on a guy and a gal who try to keep their love alive as they shuttle back and forth between New York and San Francisco to see one another. (2010)
~Love Actually: Follows the lives of eight very different couples in dealing with their love lives in various loosely and interrelated tales all set during a frantic month before Christmas in London, England. (2003)
~No Strings Attached: A romantic comedy that asks the question whether a man and a woman, can have a purely sexual relationship, without emotional attachments getting in the way.
~Beastly: Kyle thinks he is God's gift at his high school. He plays a prank on a fellow Kendra, who teaches him a lesson by putting a curse on him making him as beastly on the outside as he is on the inside)
~Ghosts of Girlfriends Past: A bachelor is haunted by the ghosts of his past girlfriends at his younger brother's wedding.
~You Again: Marni, is returning home for her brother's wedding. Marni discovers that his bride is her former arch nemesis in high school who made her life hell
~Fool's Gold: A new clue to the whereabouts of a lost treasure rekindles a married couple's sense of adventure -- and their estranged romance.
~Just Like Heaven: A lonely landscape architect falls for the spirit of beautiful woman who used to live in his new apartment
~License to Wed: A reverend puts an engaged couple through a grueling marriage preparation course to see if they are meant to be married in his church.
~A Cinderella Story: A Cinderella Story: Routinely exploited by her wicked stepmother, the downtrodden Sam Montgomery is excited about the prospect of meeting her Internet beau at the school's Halloween dances.
~Penelope: A modern romantic tale about a young aristocratic heiress born under a curse that can only be broken when she finds true love with "one who will love her faithfully."
~Good Luck Chuck: In order to keep the woman of his dreams from falling for another guy, Charlie Logan has to break the curse that has made him wildly popular with single women: Sleep with Charlie once, and the next man you meet will be your true love.
~What Happens in Vegas: Set in Sin City, story revolves around two people who discover they've gotten married following a night of debauchery...
~Leap Year: A woman who has an elaborate scheme to propose to her boyfriend on Leap Day, she faces a major setback when bad weather threatens to derail her planned trip to Dublin. With the help of an innkeeper, however, her cross-country odyssey just might result in her getting engaged.
~Overboard: Rich ***** Joanna hires country carpenter Dean to build a closet on her yacht. When the two don't see eye-to-eye, something happens and she ends up forgetting everything, who she is... he convinces her he's her husband
~Just My Luck: Manhattanite Ashley is known to many as the luckiest woman around. After a chance encounter with a down-and-out young man, however, she realizes that she's swapped her fortune for his.
~Shallow Hal: A shallow man falls in love with a 300 pound woman because of her "inner beauty".
~Flipped, its such a beautiful story, i cant really explain it but ill give you the link (2010)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RDlXdujRSâ¦
~It's a Boy Girl Thing: Sworn enemies find themselves in each other's bodies, and use this to ruin each other's lives.
~Something Borrowed: Friendships are tested and secrets come to the surface when terminally single Rachel falls for Dex, her best friend Darcy's fiancé (2011)
~Letters To Juliet: (2010)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4AmB8spntâ¦
~She's the Man: When her brother decides to ditch for a couple weeks in London, Viola heads over to his elite boarding school, disguises herself as him, and proceeds to fall for one of her soccer teammates. (2006)
~Chalet Girl: (2010)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4q5Wdni-Hâ¦
~Prom (2011)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4YziwpXjYâ¦
~Just Married: A young newlywed couple honeymoon in Europe, where obstacles challenge their ability to sustain the marriage. (2003)
~Clueless: Clueless: Jane Austen's Emma meets Beverley Hills 90210 in US West Coast teen lifestyle parody. its old but really good (1996)
~Going the Distance: A romantic comedy centered on a guy and a gal who try to keep their love alive as they shuttle back and forth between New York and San Francisco to see one another. (2010)
~Love Actually: Follows the lives of eight very different couples in dealing with their love lives in various loosely and interrelated tales all set during a frantic month before Christmas in London, England. (2003)
~No Strings Attached: A romantic comedy that asks the question whether a man and a woman, can have a purely sexual relationship, without emotional attachments getting in the way.
~Beastly: Kyle thinks he is God's gift at his high school. He plays a prank on a fellow Kendra, who teaches him a lesson by putting a curse on him making him as beastly on the outside as he is on the inside)
~Ghosts of Girlfriends Past: A bachelor is haunted by the ghosts of his past girlfriends at his younger brother's wedding.
~You Again: Marni, is returning home for her brother's wedding. Marni discovers that his bride is her former arch nemesis in high school who made her life hell
~Fool's Gold: A new clue to the whereabouts of a lost treasure rekindles a married couple's sense of adventure -- and their estranged romance.
~Just Like Heaven: A lonely landscape architect falls for the spirit of beautiful woman who used to live in his new apartment
~License to Wed: A reverend puts an engaged couple through a grueling marriage preparation course to see if they are meant to be married in his church.
~A Cinderella Story: A Cinderella Story: Routinely exploited by her wicked stepmother, the downtrodden Sam Montgomery is excited about the prospect of meeting her Internet beau at the school's Halloween dances.
~Penelope: A modern romantic tale about a young aristocratic heiress born under a curse that can only be broken when she finds true love with "one who will love her faithfully."
~Good Luck Chuck: In order to keep the woman of his dreams from falling for another guy, Charlie Logan has to break the curse that has made him wildly popular with single women: Sleep with Charlie once, and the next man you meet will be your true love.
~What Happens in Vegas: Set in Sin City, story revolves around two people who discover they've gotten married following a night of debauchery...
~Leap Year: A woman who has an elaborate scheme to propose to her boyfriend on Leap Day, she faces a major setback when bad weather threatens to derail her planned trip to Dublin. With the help of an innkeeper, however, her cross-country odyssey just might result in her getting engaged.
~Overboard: Rich ***** Joanna hires country carpenter Dean to build a closet on her yacht. When the two don't see eye-to-eye, something happens and she ends up forgetting everything, who she is... he convinces her he's her husband
~Just My Luck: Manhattanite Ashley is known to many as the luckiest woman around. After a chance encounter with a down-and-out young man, however, she realizes that she's swapped her fortune for his.
~Shallow Hal: A shallow man falls in love with a 300 pound woman because of her "inner beauty".
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