mature me
it is right to still include my ex in my gift giving list? i always make sure that all my children have gifts this coming christmas. I used to include my ex before since i was not involved with anyone else. but now that i got married, am wondering if it still right to give gift to the ex? will it be a problem and will you feel hurt if you are the current spouse?
Answer
does the gift say from you and the kids or just you?
Your remarried so really, you shouldnt give your ex a gift... unless you do it because you know if you dont he gets basically zilch. You could speak to your current husband about it.... if your married I suspect he has been in your life since last christmas... what did you do then? have you been hiding it from your current?
It really all depends on your motive for giving the ex a gift. If its a genuine platonic gift giving thing because you feel he doesnt get much, thats probably okay.... but if you still have feelings for him (he is the father of your children and you did love him at one time) then no, you shouldnt be giving him gifts if your remarried, thats not a nice thing to do to current husband.
If it were me... I would not be buying him gifts from me... I would do it in the name of the kids... and let them pick the presents out as well.... he is their dad... and regardless of how you both feel about one another now, you were in love at one time, you made a family... we cant pretend these things didnt happen.... for the kids we have to remain civilized and respectful of one another....
does the gift say from you and the kids or just you?
Your remarried so really, you shouldnt give your ex a gift... unless you do it because you know if you dont he gets basically zilch. You could speak to your current husband about it.... if your married I suspect he has been in your life since last christmas... what did you do then? have you been hiding it from your current?
It really all depends on your motive for giving the ex a gift. If its a genuine platonic gift giving thing because you feel he doesnt get much, thats probably okay.... but if you still have feelings for him (he is the father of your children and you did love him at one time) then no, you shouldnt be giving him gifts if your remarried, thats not a nice thing to do to current husband.
If it were me... I would not be buying him gifts from me... I would do it in the name of the kids... and let them pick the presents out as well.... he is their dad... and regardless of how you both feel about one another now, you were in love at one time, you made a family... we cant pretend these things didnt happen.... for the kids we have to remain civilized and respectful of one another....
ideas for a christmas gift for my parents?
hotty
Im 22, im kinda on a tight budget, im thinking maybe 20 dollars. any ideas on a gift?
Answer
Christmas gift suggestions:
1. http://www.momswhothink.com/christmas/christmas-gift-ideas.html
2.
http://www.xmasgiftideas.org/
3. Gift certificates/cards.
4. Food makes good Christmas gifts. Items that can be found at your grocery store or malls during December - they are in gift boxes and bags:
Tin of Danish cookies.
Box of chocolates.
Box of different types of cheeses.
Box of different types of sausages.
Fruit baskets.
And many more.
5. Christmas center pieces delivered from a florist or you can deliver yourself. Great for moms.
6. DVD movies, add a box of microwave popcorn.
7. Books.
Books on CD's.
Book store gift cards.
Christmas gift suggestions:
1. http://www.momswhothink.com/christmas/christmas-gift-ideas.html
2.
http://www.xmasgiftideas.org/
3. Gift certificates/cards.
4. Food makes good Christmas gifts. Items that can be found at your grocery store or malls during December - they are in gift boxes and bags:
Tin of Danish cookies.
Box of chocolates.
Box of different types of cheeses.
Box of different types of sausages.
Fruit baskets.
And many more.
5. Christmas center pieces delivered from a florist or you can deliver yourself. Great for moms.
6. DVD movies, add a box of microwave popcorn.
7. Books.
Books on CD's.
Book store gift cards.
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