Would you prefer not to receive gift list info with your invitation?

M J H

I'm wondering if it's best to send out invites only, and leave it to the guests to enquire about gift lists if they want to. I don't want people to feel obliged to give, but as everyone else seems to be sending out gift list info with their invites, I don't want people to feel awkward and confused if they don't receive any info wondering what is expected of them.

I'm also planning to have 2 gift lists - because I'm the kind of person who would rather shop around to get value for money, than just have one gift list. I don't want people to pay silly prices, and so have selected 2 stores that each have some items that we need. One is quite upmarket, and the other is rather everyday!

Advice and opinions please..

Thanks!

Answer
And you are so right not to put a list in the invitations, and for the right reasons. It is rude and very poor etiquette. It would telling people that a gift is mandatory, just as you thought. And do save the lists for when people call to ask. They will not be confused. They will call.
Feel free to register at those stores you picked out, most offer that service these days, and perfectly ok to pick one that is less expensive, like Target, Walmart. Most of the big box stores do offer registry services.
I do so appreciate a good bargain, It benefits me, I get to buy more for the bride and stay within my budget, and she gets more presents! I would also appreciate a bride who was ready for me to call with her lists in hand.
You go girl, you are doing everything right! And it is ok to arm relatives and bridesmaids with the lists. Not for them, but in case someone asks. People do so love to surprise the bride with just the right present.
And do not be afraid to ask for inexpensive presents. Sure, there are people out there who could not afford to buy more than a spatula for a wedding present, but most people are wise and affluent enough to buy a selection of small items. When I was setting up my household, I would have killed for a box of kitchen gadgets.
Congrats.

Teen girl christmas gift list?!?!?!??!?!?

Maddie

I'm 14(: and I need help with my christmas list. Nothing over 200 dollars,I already have a phone camera and ipod.I love music,books,photography,clothes and jewlery,perfume. The regular stuff. So what should I ask for?please put the stores too and products!thanksssss!

Answer
UGG boots or slippers. Expensive but worth it! (:
Perfume. Viva La Juicy(: or Body Sprays from Victoria's Secret.
Money or gift cards! so when you decide you can buy what you want!
Clothes from Hollister, Pac sun, American eagle any stores you like.
A robe(:
Socks.
Bra's
Victoria's Secret LOVE PINK Sweats.
Hair ties.
A hoodie.
Candy.
Redo your room.
New blanket.
Hair products.
Make up.
Face cleanser.
Nail polish, accessories from claires.
Forever 21 clothes.
i tunes gift card.
phone cases.
Band Tees since you like music!


Also some cute stores you can ask for clothes from:Hollister, American Eagle, Urban Outfitters, Forever 21, Pac Sun, Zumiez, Hot Topic, ect. (:
Some of that is on my list and some of it I just thought!

I hope I helped!

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Christmas Gift List....?

Olivia

Hello People,
Christmas is on it's way, and I'm getting into the spirit a bit early...
I need to get everyone gifts, of course, but I don't know what, and no one will give me a straight answer.
Could you guess what they would want based on these descriptions, please?
Brother: 9 years old, loves everything technological, bought his own ipad, flatscreen tv, google tv, ipod, psvita, etc...
Stepmother-33, loves gardening and movies
Dad-44, loves everything technological, movies, and cooking. I was thinking of getting him slippers, but he just got a pair...
Mom-46, realtor, always grumpy, loves reading the news...
Cousin-boy, 14, loves video games, tennis, biking, and technology...
Cousin-boy, 14 (they're twins), loves video games, tennis, biking, and a spy tv show...(it's called Nikita, if you know what that is.)
Aunt-49, loves dogs, jewlery making, gardening...
Uncle, 50 (i think), loves sports and cooking...
Aunt, 48, editor for the denver post, loves long walks, and her dogs
Uncle, 50 (i think), loves biking, handyman work, works as an english teacher at a highhschool...
Grandma, 87, pack rat. loves dogs...
Grandpa, 85, recently diagnosed with stage 4 prostate cancer, (this is very likely my last christmas :-( with him ever), he loves to do things. literally, he walks everywhere, built his own boat, put a solar roof on his house, etc...I want to get him something amazing, but i don't have any ideas...a simple idea could help me come up with something.
Grandma, 79, lives in portugal, makes her own jam, very good at bruising herself accidentally, has tons of fruit bushes...
Me- I don't really know what I want, but an idea for the list would be great. I'm 14, Have 4 dogs, love art, dance, and music, love to read (harry potter is my FAVORITE!!), i'm going to be an architect and/or lawyer when I grow up and want to go to harvard...

An idea or two for each person would be awesome!! I'll answer your questions if you link to them :-)
please give serious and thought out answers.
Thank You!!!!
<3,
OB

Answer
here are some ideas:
step mother-33:
High quality garden tools can make excellent garden gift ideas, such as small shovels or trowels.
Decorations for the garden are great gift ideas. Gnomes, animals, or other small ceramic sculptures are generally a good choice.
Solar lights are also great garden gift ideas. These can work well in most gardens because they do not require electricity to work.

Brother-9:
Zune HD 16 GB Video MP3 Player. It stores alot of songs ant you can watch Hd movirs and tv shows.
Sony PSP. Serously check this out! he sounds like he would like this.
Wii U or an X-box are great or even a 3ds

Dad-44:
get gift cards for blockbuster, or anywheres you can buy movies
you can get a movie fun pack for both of you that could come with popcorn, pop, candy, movies and a gift card
you could get him a recliner so he can watch his movies in comfort
or a surround sound system

Mom-46:
check out these gift baskets on amazon
Art of Appreciation Gift Baskets Heart Healthy Gourmet Food Basket
The Corporate Show Stopper⢠Christmas Gift Basket
Classic Gourmet Cheese: Gourmet Cheese Gift Basket
Christmas Gift Basket Deluxeâ¢
Or even get her some flannel Pj's or fuzzy socks

Cousin-boy, 14:
Bell F12 Bike Computer. It keeps track of trip length, current speed, max speed, average speed, and has a trip timer and a clock
A water bottle holder for a bicycle
Or a nice bicicle seat
A tablet is a perfect gift. It doesn't cost too much. or even a giftcard to best buy or gamestop

Aunt-49:
Beadsmith Jewelry Fine Round Nose Micro Pliers PL513 (great for making jewelry)
Darice JD Bead Storage System with 12 Containers (great for storing supplies)
Southwest Spirit Jewelry Polishing Cloths - Package of 3 (a must have!)
A retractible leash (for her dog)
Obedience classes (for her dog)

Uncle-50:
Workbench - A good workbench makes work easier for the Do It Yourselfer, and it's not something you have to pay a lot of money on either.
The Black and Decker Battery Operated Adjustable Wrench - This is one of the BEST invention ever!
Tool belt - A tool belt is a handy tool gift that anyone will appreciate

Aunt-48:
Timex Mid-Size T5G971 Personal Trainer Heart Rate Monitor Watch
Spenco Polysorb Total Support, Women's 11-12 / Men's 10-11 (amazon)
Reebok Thumblock Wrist Weight (2-Pound Set) or Two 1lb. weights (amazon)

Uncle-50:
You can get him a mini refrigerator or a Coca Cola 6 Can mini fridge or for winters you can buy him a space heater, which will be a really comforting and awesome gift
you can get your him a gift certificate for his favorite local sports bar or a sports themed restaurant

Grandma 87:
Tickets to a Movie
A Special Meal at a Restaurant
Sweet Treats
Gourmet Food

Grandpa, 85:
Warm snuggly socks
DVDs or a DVD player
A scrapbook
Candy or sugary foods
Nice clothing (shirts or baseball caps)

Grandma-79:
Watering can
Jars (for her jam)
a sprinkler or a sprikler system

You:
If you like cute jewelry betsy johnson is a great style, you can find really cheap betsy johnson on ebay. esty has good earphone jacks that are a really cute and creative way to embelish your ipod. Fuzzy socks are a must have! Juicy coture charms/perfume are adorable! (cheapest on ebay) Princess vera and lauren conrad has alot of cute dresses. If your a twilight fan they are also selling twilight perfume. nomorerack.com also has really good deals. There is also a new wii u comming out, which sounds fun. Beauty products are really great, too. I personally love the Jafra sugar cookie body butter (or any jafra body butter) If your a reader you would enjoy the nook hd tablet (they are really nice) Also the sephora eye shadows are really good :) hope this helps

Baby shower gift list?

*Due in 9

I need help to make a list of all the baby stuff I will need ... please help!!

Answer
April 2007

Newborn necessities checklist
A master list for moms and dads


Consumer Reports Video
BUYING ADVICE
Newborn necessities


Here's a checklist of what you should have on hand before your baby arrives.

Tooling around
_____Car seat.
_____Stroller.

Beds and linens
_____Crib.
_____Crib mattress.
_____Bassinet/cradle (if you don't want to put your baby in a crib right away).
_____Two to three fitted crib sheets.
_____Four or more waffle-weave cotton receiving blankets for swaddling baby
_____Two mattress pads.
_____One to two waterproof liners (for crib or bassinet).

Diaper duty
_____Diapers. Disposables: One 40-count package of newborn (birth weight under 8 pounds) or of
size 1 (birth weight over 8 pounds). Cloth: Two to three dozen, plus six to 10 snap-on, waterproof
outer pants, and two to three sets of diaper pins, eight to 10 all-in-ones or diaper system covers;
two to three dozen diaper system inserts.
_____Diaper pail (with refills or bags as needed).
_____Diaper bag.

Dressing baby
_____Four sleeping outfits or one-piece sleepers with attached feet.
_____Six side-snap T-shirts.
_____Four to six one-piece undershirts that snap around the crotch.
_____A small baby cap (although the hospital will probably give you one).
_____Six pairs socks/booties.
_____Two to three soft, comfortable daytime outfits. Get only a few items in newborn size. Then, go for
clothing in the 6-month size--your baby will grow into it quickly. But don't buy baby sleepwear
that's too big--it's a safety hazard.
_____Cotton sweater or light jacket.

Summer babies
_____Brimmed hat.

Winter babies
_____Snowsuit with attached mittens or fold-over cuffs, or heavy bunting.
_____Heavy stroller blanket.
_____Warm knit hat.

Feeding time
If you're planning to breast-feed:
_____Three to five nursing bras.
_____A box of washable or disposable breast pads.
_____Breast pump if you expect to use one (manual or electric).
_____Four small baby bottles with newborn nipples for storing expressed breast milk.
_____Bottle-drying tree.
_____Bottle brush.
_____Insulated bottle holder for diaper bag (the hospital may give you one).
_____Three packs of cloth diapers or burp cloths.
If you're planning to bottle-feed:
_____Six 4- to 5-ounce bottles, plus nipples, rings, and a dishwasher basket if you use a dishwasher.

Bathing/Grooming
_____Plastic infant bathtub.
_____Three soft hooded towels.
_____Two packs of baby washcloths.
_____Baby body wash that doubles as shampoo.
_____Pair of blunt-tip scissors or baby-sized nail clippers.
_____Zinc-oxide-based diaper rash ointment.
_____Soft brush and comb.
_____Mild laundry detergent.

Medicine chest essentials
_____A pain-and-fever reducer recommended by your baby's doctor, such as Infant's Tylenol.
_____Cotton pads/swabs.
_____Nasal aspirator.
_____Digital rectal thermometer.
_____Rubbing alcohol.
_____Petroleum jelly.

Keeping baby happy
_____Pacifiers.

Extras: Nice but optional
_____Baby monitor.
_____Changing table.
_____A rocker or glider.
_____Sling or strap-on soft carrier.
_____Boppy, a doughnut-shape pillow designed to make holding baby during breastfeeding or
bottlefeeding easier.
_____Nursing coverup. Attaches at your neck and allows for private breastfeeding when you and your
baby are in public.
_____Infant swing.
_____Bouncy seat.
_____Night-light.

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Christmas Gift List....?

Olivia

Hello People,
Christmas is on it's way, and I'm getting into the spirit a bit early...
I need to get everyone gifts, of course, but I don't know what, and no one will give me a straight answer.
Could you guess what they would want based on these descriptions, please?
Brother: 9 years old, loves everything technological, bought his own ipad, flatscreen tv, google tv, ipod, psvita, etc...
Stepmother-33, loves gardening and movies
Dad-44, loves everything technological, movies, and cooking. I was thinking of getting him slippers, but he just got a pair...
Mom-46, realtor, always grumpy, loves reading the news...
Cousin-boy, 14, loves video games, tennis, biking, and technology...
Cousin-boy, 14 (they're twins), loves video games, tennis, biking, and a spy tv show...(it's called Nikita, if you know what that is.)
Aunt-49, loves dogs, jewlery making, gardening...
Uncle, 50 (i think), loves sports and cooking...
Aunt, 48, editor for the denver post, loves long walks, and her dogs
Uncle, 50 (i think), loves biking, handyman work, works as an english teacher at a highhschool...
Grandma, 87, pack rat. loves dogs...
Grandpa, 85, recently diagnosed with stage 4 prostate cancer, (this is very likely my last christmas :-( with him ever), he loves to do things. literally, he walks everywhere, built his own boat, put a solar roof on his house, etc...I want to get him something amazing, but i don't have any ideas...a simple idea could help me come up with something.
Grandma, 79, lives in portugal, makes her own jam, very good at bruising herself accidentally, has tons of fruit bushes...
Me- I don't really know what I want, but an idea for the list would be great. I'm 14, Have 4 dogs, love art, dance, and music, love to read (harry potter is my FAVORITE!!), i'm going to be an architect and/or lawyer when I grow up and want to go to harvard...

An idea or two for each person would be awesome!! I'll answer your questions if you link to them :-)
please give serious and thought out answers.
Thank You!!!!
<3,
OB

Answer
here are some ideas:
step mother-33:
High quality garden tools can make excellent garden gift ideas, such as small shovels or trowels.
Decorations for the garden are great gift ideas. Gnomes, animals, or other small ceramic sculptures are generally a good choice.
Solar lights are also great garden gift ideas. These can work well in most gardens because they do not require electricity to work.

Brother-9:
Zune HD 16 GB Video MP3 Player. It stores alot of songs ant you can watch Hd movirs and tv shows.
Sony PSP. Serously check this out! he sounds like he would like this.
Wii U or an X-box are great or even a 3ds

Dad-44:
get gift cards for blockbuster, or anywheres you can buy movies
you can get a movie fun pack for both of you that could come with popcorn, pop, candy, movies and a gift card
you could get him a recliner so he can watch his movies in comfort
or a surround sound system

Mom-46:
check out these gift baskets on amazon
Art of Appreciation Gift Baskets Heart Healthy Gourmet Food Basket
The Corporate Show Stopper⢠Christmas Gift Basket
Classic Gourmet Cheese: Gourmet Cheese Gift Basket
Christmas Gift Basket Deluxeâ¢
Or even get her some flannel Pj's or fuzzy socks

Cousin-boy, 14:
Bell F12 Bike Computer. It keeps track of trip length, current speed, max speed, average speed, and has a trip timer and a clock
A water bottle holder for a bicycle
Or a nice bicicle seat
A tablet is a perfect gift. It doesn't cost too much. or even a giftcard to best buy or gamestop

Aunt-49:
Beadsmith Jewelry Fine Round Nose Micro Pliers PL513 (great for making jewelry)
Darice JD Bead Storage System with 12 Containers (great for storing supplies)
Southwest Spirit Jewelry Polishing Cloths - Package of 3 (a must have!)
A retractible leash (for her dog)
Obedience classes (for her dog)

Uncle-50:
Workbench - A good workbench makes work easier for the Do It Yourselfer, and it's not something you have to pay a lot of money on either.
The Black and Decker Battery Operated Adjustable Wrench - This is one of the BEST invention ever!
Tool belt - A tool belt is a handy tool gift that anyone will appreciate

Aunt-48:
Timex Mid-Size T5G971 Personal Trainer Heart Rate Monitor Watch
Spenco Polysorb Total Support, Women's 11-12 / Men's 10-11 (amazon)
Reebok Thumblock Wrist Weight (2-Pound Set) or Two 1lb. weights (amazon)

Uncle-50:
You can get him a mini refrigerator or a Coca Cola 6 Can mini fridge or for winters you can buy him a space heater, which will be a really comforting and awesome gift
you can get your him a gift certificate for his favorite local sports bar or a sports themed restaurant

Grandma 87:
Tickets to a Movie
A Special Meal at a Restaurant
Sweet Treats
Gourmet Food

Grandpa, 85:
Warm snuggly socks
DVDs or a DVD player
A scrapbook
Candy or sugary foods
Nice clothing (shirts or baseball caps)

Grandma-79:
Watering can
Jars (for her jam)
a sprinkler or a sprikler system

You:
If you like cute jewelry betsy johnson is a great style, you can find really cheap betsy johnson on ebay. esty has good earphone jacks that are a really cute and creative way to embelish your ipod. Fuzzy socks are a must have! Juicy coture charms/perfume are adorable! (cheapest on ebay) Princess vera and lauren conrad has alot of cute dresses. If your a twilight fan they are also selling twilight perfume. nomorerack.com also has really good deals. There is also a new wii u comming out, which sounds fun. Beauty products are really great, too. I personally love the Jafra sugar cookie body butter (or any jafra body butter) If your a reader you would enjoy the nook hd tablet (they are really nice) Also the sephora eye shadows are really good :) hope this helps

Baby shower gift list?

*Due in 9

I need help to make a list of all the baby stuff I will need ... please help!!

Answer
April 2007

Newborn necessities checklist
A master list for moms and dads


Consumer Reports Video
BUYING ADVICE
Newborn necessities


Here's a checklist of what you should have on hand before your baby arrives.

Tooling around
_____Car seat.
_____Stroller.

Beds and linens
_____Crib.
_____Crib mattress.
_____Bassinet/cradle (if you don't want to put your baby in a crib right away).
_____Two to three fitted crib sheets.
_____Four or more waffle-weave cotton receiving blankets for swaddling baby
_____Two mattress pads.
_____One to two waterproof liners (for crib or bassinet).

Diaper duty
_____Diapers. Disposables: One 40-count package of newborn (birth weight under 8 pounds) or of
size 1 (birth weight over 8 pounds). Cloth: Two to three dozen, plus six to 10 snap-on, waterproof
outer pants, and two to three sets of diaper pins, eight to 10 all-in-ones or diaper system covers;
two to three dozen diaper system inserts.
_____Diaper pail (with refills or bags as needed).
_____Diaper bag.

Dressing baby
_____Four sleeping outfits or one-piece sleepers with attached feet.
_____Six side-snap T-shirts.
_____Four to six one-piece undershirts that snap around the crotch.
_____A small baby cap (although the hospital will probably give you one).
_____Six pairs socks/booties.
_____Two to three soft, comfortable daytime outfits. Get only a few items in newborn size. Then, go for
clothing in the 6-month size--your baby will grow into it quickly. But don't buy baby sleepwear
that's too big--it's a safety hazard.
_____Cotton sweater or light jacket.

Summer babies
_____Brimmed hat.

Winter babies
_____Snowsuit with attached mittens or fold-over cuffs, or heavy bunting.
_____Heavy stroller blanket.
_____Warm knit hat.

Feeding time
If you're planning to breast-feed:
_____Three to five nursing bras.
_____A box of washable or disposable breast pads.
_____Breast pump if you expect to use one (manual or electric).
_____Four small baby bottles with newborn nipples for storing expressed breast milk.
_____Bottle-drying tree.
_____Bottle brush.
_____Insulated bottle holder for diaper bag (the hospital may give you one).
_____Three packs of cloth diapers or burp cloths.
If you're planning to bottle-feed:
_____Six 4- to 5-ounce bottles, plus nipples, rings, and a dishwasher basket if you use a dishwasher.

Bathing/Grooming
_____Plastic infant bathtub.
_____Three soft hooded towels.
_____Two packs of baby washcloths.
_____Baby body wash that doubles as shampoo.
_____Pair of blunt-tip scissors or baby-sized nail clippers.
_____Zinc-oxide-based diaper rash ointment.
_____Soft brush and comb.
_____Mild laundry detergent.

Medicine chest essentials
_____A pain-and-fever reducer recommended by your baby's doctor, such as Infant's Tylenol.
_____Cotton pads/swabs.
_____Nasal aspirator.
_____Digital rectal thermometer.
_____Rubbing alcohol.
_____Petroleum jelly.

Keeping baby happy
_____Pacifiers.

Extras: Nice but optional
_____Baby monitor.
_____Changing table.
_____A rocker or glider.
_____Sling or strap-on soft carrier.
_____Boppy, a doughnut-shape pillow designed to make holding baby during breastfeeding or
bottlefeeding easier.
_____Nursing coverup. Attaches at your neck and allows for private breastfeeding when you and your
baby are in public.
_____Infant swing.
_____Bouncy seat.
_____Night-light.

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How should I word a gift list card for a wedding?

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TRR

I am sending out a gift list number for Argos with me wedding invitations, but am unsure about how to word it! Any ideas?

Answer
Good new! You don' have to worry about it! Don't put the registry list in the invitations! It is rude and greedy, and not done.
But really, if you do, word it like this: hey guests, I'm greedy and manner less, so I'm putting this registry list in the invitations, so that you know it is mandatory that you choose a gift from here. I was very careful to put only very expensive things on it, it took me a lot of time, so don't even think of cheaping out and getting something cheaper. And don't try that old gift card trick with me, it had better be the same amount as the gifts I picked, I know that is a way to cheap out! Send a $50 gift card when I clearly want gifts that start at $150, and then tell me it is for those items that did not get picked for the wedding, I know about that dodge! . I picked out 150 gifts for 150 guests, now go get it, and make darn good sure you get a gift receipt, because I am going to make one trip to the store to take the things back that you all messed up on!.

What to include on wedding gift list?

B2B

Any suggestions of what practical gifts to include on a wedding gift list?

so far i have - cutlery, knife block, dinner set.

Answer
Dishes, linens (all types) iron, ironing board, cookware, utensils. When you create a registry, you choose from a list which covers everything. It's a good idea to create a registry with more than one store. It's in poor taste to ask for money or gift cards; putting a gift list with the invitations is a no-no. There should be a separate insert inside the invite stating where you are registered.

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Who was so high up on the naughty list that they were good?

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Secret Age

Some people are best when they are naughty, like Mekayla, because they like it. Were there people on your gift list because they were naughty?

Answer
a red rabbit

How much are you spending on Holiday gifts this season?

geri

About how much are you going to spend per person on you gift list? Your age, occupation?

Answer
Less than $150. This year I'm shifting the focus to Birthdays!

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What do you think about having a baby shower list?

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I know this is a party I cannot throw myself; however, I'm thinking about having a gift list with things I'll use. I think it's a good idea since most presents are clothes or things you don't use later. I'm thinking about including diapers, lotions, shampoo and creams, blankets, diaper bag, and so on.

Do you think it's rude to include a baby shower gift list?
haha, sorry, I didn't mean to include literally a "list", I'm just saying to include registry information together with the card.

Answer
While its tacky to include a gift request list with the invitation, it is customary to send along a gift registry. Its the same thing, its just more acceptable to say "Mary is registered at X store" rather than say "Mary wants diapers, lotion, shampoo, etc."

What are some good gifts to give a teenage girl who loves fashion?

lizabeth

She loves the stores Urban Outfitters, Anthropologie, American Eagle, and American Apparel. I don't want to get her a gift card, because that seems too broad. I looked on all these sights and the gift lists are huge and some don't even have them. If you could pick out a few cute things that you think a teenage girl would like and leave the links it'd be most appreciated! Thanks

Answer
get her UGG BOOTS!!!!!! jewlery and make up!! UGG BOOTS 4SURE

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Who was so high up on the naughty list that they were good?

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Secret Age

Some people are best when they are naughty, like Mekayla, because they like it. Were there people on your gift list because they were naughty?

Answer
a red rabbit

How much are you spending on Holiday gifts this season?

geri

About how much are you going to spend per person on you gift list? Your age, occupation?

Answer
Less than $150. This year I'm shifting the focus to Birthdays!

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