what is a good surprise gift to give a women you will soon be dating?

jayfizzle1

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Why would you give a gift to a woman you're not dating yet? Wait until you're dating her!

What is the perfect gift to give to a woman on the first date?

Q.

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It is a first date, so you don't want to overdo it. It's true, we love flowers, so I would suggest you to get her a single flower. You can buy it in advance, or if you two are going to walk together at some point during or at the end of the date, you can even pick one up if you see a really nice one while you're walking (those are awesome gestures, and women love spontaneity when it's not embarrassing).
You can actually scout the place where you're going to walk with her beforehand, to see where are the best flowers so you can pick one.
That would be my advice. Good luck!!!

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Do some women differentiate between money spent on a date vs. a gift?

Thundercat

Based on a couple recent question of buying gifts for women, it reminded me of something that happened years ago. I was dating a woman in the somewhat early stages (a few months). She had an older stereo system with a broken CD player. I went online looking for a unit to replace it which matched the system which happened to be a used unit. It ended up being about $40. When I told her about it, she seemed real uncomfortable with accepting such a gift. I was completely puzzled. She had many CD's sitting idle. She could listen to music again. I could listed to music at her house. Just the week before I had taken her out on a date, ate some food, saw a comedian. It was about $80 for both of us. Basically, it was $40 out of my pocket for her benefit.

What was the difference in spending the money on a date or a gift?

You might say the date meant time spent together. Well, we could also sit together and listen to music while cuddling.

I wasn't buying the gift for sex. We were already in the intimate phase. I was buying the gift because I thought she would like it.
It almost wasn't even a gift as much as it was fixing something that was broken. In this case, it was cheaper to buy another unit than to fix the old one.

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Women are not too bothered on specific costs dependant on the intent.

A fleeting dinner date versus an invested gift.

Thats the difference, she will always think of you when playing CD's and looking at the player so its more of a big deal in her mind.

however a date is date, not much in it really, not that i'm saying it wasn't great for you both, but chances are every time both of you have a steak, salad or what ever you had for dinner, i doubt you are going to always think of each other for ever.

So long term invested gift, or short term date, that's about it really.

Ha.... woman hay... nightmares..

Hope that helps you mate.

Daniel

Is it creepy to buy women gifts in hopes that you can date them?

internet u

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What if you buy them gifts and they still don't date you? Waste of money.

Someone gave me a very expensive handbag on a first date once. It was very awkward. He then expected me to date him again but I wasn't in to him any way and he got pi**ed off, saying he expected me to date him because of the handbag.

I didn't force him to give me the bag. It was his choice! I told him that I am not a prostitute and would gladly give the bag back to be rid of him!

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What is the perfect gift to give to a woman on the first date?

aharlyride

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It is a first date, so you don't want to overdo it. It's true, we love flowers, so I would suggest you to get her a single flower. You can buy it in advance, or if you two are going to walk together at some point during or at the end of the date, you can even pick one up if you see a really nice one while you're walking (those are awesome gestures, and women love spontaneity when it's not embarrassing).
You can actually scout the place where you're going to walk with her beforehand, to see where are the best flowers so you can pick one.
That would be my advice. Good luck!!!

What do woman want..?

Stoker679

I think there is a point in ever manâs life when this question crosses his mind. Unfortunately itâs never under the greatest of circumstances. Iâm a lonely 23 year man whom has steered clear of the dating scene due to the utter complications of the good guy bad guy scenario. I unfortunately am the good guy; raised in a house full of woman I picked up on the emotional rollercoaster that they call âfinding loveâ at a very young age. A kid can only take so my nights watching their loved ones cry themselves to sleep over a man; before putting their little foot down and accepting the challenge of simply finding someone to love enough to give them what they deserve.

As an adult I see that it is much more difficult than that. Iâm not going to bombard you with my relationship stories. For me itâs simple, they all ended very similar to one other. âYouâre too good for meâ, âyouâre going to make some lucky girl very happyâ, and âYouâre too good to be trueâ. Mind you Iâm no saint! Iâm just respectful to their space and feelings. I donât buy them gifts all the time! Only when I fell thatâs its right; that way it means something to them. Iâm not a push over! I fight when itâs something I feel is necessary to fight about.

The only reason I raise this question is due to the fact that out of the five relationships that I have been in. four of them have gone to men that treat them badly. I happen to be friends with one of their boyfriendâs sister and I come to find he cheats on her, fights, and lies to her. I donât get it??? It almost seems as if they like someone to be rude to them. Iâm so confused⦠Is it wrong for me to just want to love someone for who they are? Support them in everything they do and be there for them when called upon? Or am I just thinking too far into this? Should I try being rude for a change see how that turns outâ¦What do woman want?

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Maybe the women you have been dating came from dysfunctional homes. They are not used to being treated with respect. They are unable to treat themselves with respect. The influencing parent has the most influence on a girl/woman. Usually the father. If he is abusive, disrespectful and a cheating moron and the wife/mother was a passive doormat or vice versa then that is the mould or conditioning that has been implanted into the psyche.
Then life comes along to teach us that this is not the way to live.
We are often filled with a false perspective that it is "happier ever after" or the happiness trap. Life is not like this at all and no one is ever perfect, in fact most of us have an idealistic perspective.
What your parents or family did is not what you have to do as an adult. You can choose to live a different life. You your self have been conditioned but just don't know it. You are attracted to certain types of women because.................................
Who do they remind you most of?
What is it you want them to be?
What perspectives do you have that might need tweeking a bit?
Did you feel loved as child?
Did you feel abandoned as a child?
Did you have unrelenting standards to live up to?
Were you emotionally deprived or abused as a child?
Are you constantly seeking one or more parents love, acceptance and approval?
Most young women don't see the comparisons to their home life to their adult life choices.
This only comes about when you have become older and had a few challenges to work through before it becomes clear and you gain wisdom.
I speak from my own life experiences. I'm mature aged now.
I met my ex husband when I was just 16 and had just started my first job. I believed in love at first sight and happily ever after scenarios.
Of course I chose the wrong man ( a rebel with addictions and bad attitude) to hook up with. I eloped at age 19 when it was a very outrageous thing to do. I got pregnant. He did not want the baby. I had to beg my parents for some money to get an abortion because I could not bare to be separated from him. I stayed with him for 23 years. We married after living together for 4 years. I had several miscarriages and then had two sons who are young adults now. I divorced the man 12 years ago because once I reached my late 30's I began to re-evaluate my life. I was terribly lonely in my marriage (he was hardly home much and addicted to pot and not good at handling money) and I was always meeting his needs while mine were ignored. It was an ugly separtion and divorce process. I've started my life over and while I don't have much and I'm single and content to be free of all the wretchedness. End of story.

Nothing wrong for wanting to love someone for who they are.
It shows a nice acceptance level that is not based solely on looks, money, status all of which are superficial aspects.
However, supporting destructive behaviour is not healthy.
It is not your job to fix them. This is their path and their lessons to learn.
You need to detach from this sort of person or crowd of misfits who don't understand integrity nor how to behave properly.
You are wasting your time here. You can't fix this one.
Try charitable groups or community groups who have good folk who volunteer to serve the wider community.
Environmental or Conservation groups also attract a better class (hate the word) of people who can distinguish between right and wrong.
Don't be rude and disrespectful. You lower yourself to the gutter.
Just continue to be your good self.
You got to ask yourself why you keep being attracted to drama queens. Maybe attractiveness but they are soooo screwed up inside. I could tell you the answer...however, you need to figure it out for yourself. Once you do, you can then make better choices in the type of women you become involved with and who not to get involved with.
A relationships book written by Dr Barbra De Angilis titled "Are you the one for me" is a good read and helps put things into proper perspective. Maybe your local library has it or could order it in for you.

Good luck!

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what is the best gift for a woman im dating for christmas?

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Hollywood

She's 20 me too but i don't know what i should get her
we have been dating for a couple months but aren't officially together yet
but out of the women ive dated recently i really like her and i was thinking about
getting this diamond necklace from Macy's that looks like a hershey kiss

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Does she wear jewelery? Would she wear it if she had any? A necklace would be the perfect gift if she liked to wear necklaces. However, necklaces tend to be the 'go-to' gift for guys who don't know what to get. It is jewelery, but it doesn't have the same meaning as a ring. If she has pierced ears, ear rings might be preferable to a necklace.

If you have been dating for a couple of months, you must have some idea of what she loves. Obviously, she enjoys spending time with you so make your gift an activity. Is there a special concert or event that she would love to go to? Does she collect any specific item? Do you share a love for a certain type of music? You want your gift to remind her of you so it should be something that means something to both of you.

Last year my boyfriend gave me a promissory note to let me wear his shirt (my favorite) after he had worn it for a day. I would wear it the next day and I could smell his aftershave. I would wash it and return it so that he could wear it again. Wearing that shirt always made me feel loved and cared for. The best gift ever!

What does a woman do during the dating phase?

John D

Men pay for dates, plan vacations and give nice gifts. How do women reciprocate in return during the dating stage?

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Well...a man who eventually wants to have a family is looking for a woman who will someday deliver into this world a 8lb bowling ball through a hole generally about the circumfrance of a banana....sounds like a pretty good trade off. And who says that the guy has to plan the vacation??? I've planned all of ours for the past 5 years!!! He always says he wants to, but never has time, so I do.

And a woman, during the dating phase is looking for a guy that is financially stable enough to pay for the dates, they may not admit it, but if they want to start a family, they want a guy that can financially support their family when they may be unable to do so for themselves (bedrest during pregnancy, breastfeeding limits work ability b/c they feed every 3 hours which by the way, is also no picnic either, and possibly wanting to be a stay at home mom to raise their kids with their beliefs and a good educational foundation)

When my husband and I dated, we were mostly in high school, I was from a rich town, he was from the ghetto, even he could pay for a dinner every now and then, it's not that big of deal.

As for how they recipricate during the dating stage, they stay interested in you. They can give you back rubs and foot rubs. Depending on their age/ religious beliefs they may give you...more. They can cook dinner for you. They can do your laundry. I know I am a fairly traditional person when it comes to sex roles, but why fix what isn't broken??? If you can't think of anything your girlfriend does but use you, then maybe you should ask her to reciprocate or move on.

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What does a woman do during the dating phase?

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John D

Men pay for dates, plan vacations and give nice gifts. How do women reciprocate in return during the dating stage?

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Well...a man who eventually wants to have a family is looking for a woman who will someday deliver into this world a 8lb bowling ball through a hole generally about the circumfrance of a banana....sounds like a pretty good trade off. And who says that the guy has to plan the vacation??? I've planned all of ours for the past 5 years!!! He always says he wants to, but never has time, so I do.

And a woman, during the dating phase is looking for a guy that is financially stable enough to pay for the dates, they may not admit it, but if they want to start a family, they want a guy that can financially support their family when they may be unable to do so for themselves (bedrest during pregnancy, breastfeeding limits work ability b/c they feed every 3 hours which by the way, is also no picnic either, and possibly wanting to be a stay at home mom to raise their kids with their beliefs and a good educational foundation)

When my husband and I dated, we were mostly in high school, I was from a rich town, he was from the ghetto, even he could pay for a dinner every now and then, it's not that big of deal.

As for how they recipricate during the dating stage, they stay interested in you. They can give you back rubs and foot rubs. Depending on their age/ religious beliefs they may give you...more. They can cook dinner for you. They can do your laundry. I know I am a fairly traditional person when it comes to sex roles, but why fix what isn't broken??? If you can't think of anything your girlfriend does but use you, then maybe you should ask her to reciprocate or move on.

What do I get a woman whom I just started dating for Christmas?

NaH1981

I'm trying to get an idea of what I can get as a Christmas gift for a woman that I've just started dating. I don't want to get something expensive, just something nice and something that says that I've been listening.

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You can always give her something small that relates to the things you've been talking about. Something that has to do with a little inside joke that you share

I don't know how far the two of you have "progressed" since you started dating, but you could also just give her a small box with a bit of mistletoe in it. If you haven't had your first kiss yet, it will be a really romantic and memorable way have it.

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What kind of flowers should I get the woman I am dating?

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Kevin R

We have been on 4 dates during the past month and things seem to be going well. For our next date, I thought I would give her flowers, so no occasion, except that I want to convey that I really like her. We are both in our mid to late 20s. During this time of year in the mid-atlantic region, what is a good idea for flowers and I don't want to be cliche and give her roses? Thanks!

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If you know any of her friends, then talk to them and ask them not to mention anything. Find out what her favourite flower is, that shows effort. Sure the friend will tell her even if they agree not too, but that also shows effort.

Plus, it's also a good idea in case the friend turns around and says she suffers badly from hey fever, that way you can get plastic flowers as a gimmicky gift to prevent a romantic gift turning into a miserable date.

What do you think of a 22 year old woman dating a 64 year old man?

Lasata

He sends me gifts all the time and is very kind.

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If you don't have a problem with it then go for it.

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