What are some good Christmas gift ideas for a 61 year old woman to encourage health & wellness?

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Tara

My mother (61) retired two years ago from being a pre-k teacher. Since then, I worry about her health. She is single and doesn't have any friends who live in the area. Apart from myself (20) and my son(3), my younger brother (14) and younger cousin (19) live with her. She has become extremely anti-social and stubborn. She doesn't do much during the day aside from watch television, eat, and go grocery shopping. In her earlier years she traveled a lot, but doesn't seem to have an interest in it any longer. She does however, love art. She sees how active my lifestyle is and my son and she seems to take interest, but doesn't do anything about it. Apart from having high blood pressure (like me) she doesn't have any major health conditions that I am aware of though sometimes she complains about her ankles hurting. I feel like if I can find the perfect gift to encourage her to become more active and spend less time indoors, I may be on to something. The only outdoor activity/hobby she has is gardening, but during the colder seasons it isn't an option. I would like to begin by encouraging her to walk more just to get her out of the house more often or even encouraging her to begin by doing mild exercising indoors. Our house isn't that big so she doesn't get much exercise walking throughout the house. She seems genuinely interested in weight loss, but I guess she needs more motivation getting started. She has purchased exercise shoes, home DVDs, and diet plans but she never uses any of them. I am really trying to get her on a better track toward her overall health & wellness. I want her to become more active in her life also. If anyone has any ideas that could help, I would greatly appreciate it. I really want to start her off with a gift that she would like, and then encourage and support her from there.

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You sound like you love your mother very much. If she loves art, then get her a complete artist set, so she can go outside and paint her surroundings. They can be quite expensive, getting the right ones, though. If you do not wish to spend so much money, than get her some novels. If she is a reader, than she can curl up inside on cold days and use books for pastime. Maybe get her some coffee or hot chocolate with 2 novels and that will make a perfect gift set!

Hope I could help!

What would be a nice gift to give a young 16 year old hispanic female who helps me translate from time to time?

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Within the last year and a half she has translated for me numerous times, and I thought it would be nice to get her a gift. I want to get her a gift that is respectful to her as a young woman and that respects her and her families economical ways of living.

I dont want to go with "make up/perfume/gift card"

any ideas?

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probably the same gift you'd get a 16 year old caucasian female?

- You could get her the spanish version of your favorite book. Or just your favorite book.
- Bake something! Get in the kitchen and show off some family recipes! I often give baklava and spanikopita as gifts. They take a lot of effort, but they're always well received. If you don't have any family recipes, then make up a basket with cookies. (or if you're hopeless in the kitchen, go to a bakery and make a nice gift basket).
- She has to have some sort of interests beyond translating! Use those...
- Why not give her a little herb garden or some potted flowers? You could even make a nice planted arrangement for her.
- a little gift basket with face masks, foot lotions, body lotions, lip glosses and soaps.

I really think the candle thing is so overdone. Seriously, don't buy candles and smelly things. I have so many different candles at my place from gifts. I can only light so many candles at one time! Plus, I have two cats, so I can't even light a candle unless I'm right beside it supervising...

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What should I get my boss as thank you present? I am a summer intern leaving?

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Jay

I am working in a lab and want to leave a thank you gift. My boss is a woman over 40 if that helps. Any Suggestions

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Presents aren't standard, required or expected. A really nice note would be nice though, thanking her for all she did for you and the opportunities you were given.

What to do about sexually inappropriate 'secret santa' gifts at work?

Q. 40 year old happily married mom of 2 boys. I work in an office where the women are outnumbered roughly 5-1 but everyone gets along great and in the ten years I've been there it's been an amazing work environment.
Every Christmas we do a secret Santa gift swap and have to get 5 small, inexpensive gifts, one for each day of the week preceding Christmas. We started yesterday. Typically at the end of the week we typically do not divulge our secret identity if we don't choose to.
My dilemma is that yesterday I found a small box on my desk from my secret santa and inside it was a pair of nipple pasties in the shape of wreathes. I was shocked and rather embarrassed. This morning I found my second gift and was reluctant to open it, and when I did I found a little chrome object with a jeweled head. bit of research online showed it to be a small anal plug!! Again....a bit taken aback. This afternoon when I stepped out to mail a few things I came back and a note was on my desk saying: "I hope you are not offended by the gifts, I just saw them and thought you'd look great in them! -Secret Santa'
I have no idea who is giving me these, nor do I think I want to! Our boss is in on the secret santa thing so not sure I want to go to him and not sure I want to take it that far. Besides, my boss is a guy and he's kind of a free-wheeling type and for all I know it could be him.
By biggest question is do I tell my husband? He would be pretty upset and most likely come to my office and demand to know who it was -not a great scenario. And also, if I find out who it is should I thank them and laugh it off as a joke and then tell my husband?
Never been in this position....
Edit: I might have believed it was a 'gag gift' if not for the note. A 'gag gift' might have been one item, but not two..and who knows? I might get similar items all 5 days. Not so sure I want one of my male co-workers picturing me in pasties and anal jewelry!

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Those objects and the note fall well within the EEOC guidelines defining sexual harassment. You are well within your rights to report the matter to your employer. If the employer does not take action to prevent another occurrence, you can legally sue the employer for sexual harassment.

Keep in mind the only thing your employer could do to prevent another occurrence when the perpetrator is unknown, is to end the Secret Santa gift exchange. This will make you very unpopular with the other employees.

If you wish to retain your friendship with the employees who are Not sexually harassing you, it might be best to make a public display of looking in the boxes, then throwing them directly into the garbage can. You can bet your last dollar that your Secret Santa is watching to see how you react to his gifts. This should give him the message loud and clear.

If you decide Not to complain to management, don't tell your husband. No need of making him mad and causing a scene at work. Get rid of the items, if you keep them you will have some tall explaining to do if he finds them.

If you do decide to complain to management, by all means, tell your husband as he is going to find out when EEOC interviews him. If you decide to file an EEOC complaint, keep the items and notes for evidence.

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