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Jenny
All my friends have turned on me. I made a mistake and told someone something I shouldn't have. I don't have any friends anymore. None. My parents don't support me. I've told them I'm depressed and I need help. They only say I need to "shut up and stop looking for attention". I cut myself all the time and I've almost killed myself 4 times. Please how do I stop.
Answer
Jenny, many people have this happen at some point in there life, they make a mistake and say or do something, and they lose their friends or even get cut off from their family.
Try to apologize one more time and let them know you know you made a mistake, and you're very sorry and you'd like back into the group. Ask one of the kinder friends if they can help you get back in with your friends. If it doesn't happen, trust me, other friends will come along, and what many of us know, that you don't know, is that life is so full of change. You will make new friends at some point. It's impossible that you wouldn't.
There is so much ahead. If you've told your parents you're depressed and need help and they are responding as you say, you need to go to a school counselor and tell them what you told us. Your parents attitude isn't helping you feel understood or secure and that's not your fault.
Since you've tried to give up four times you may need an anti-depressant until you get more stable. Many people also go through unstable periods in their life, and then it passes and life is good again.
When I was younger I was very unhappy because of the way 'certain women' treated me. I was very depressed and angry. I talked with this 80 year old man who was a minister at my church. He had counseled people for 50 years. He told me to repeat this affirmation over and over when I had spare time. I have told others on this board this affirmation.
It is: I love everyone and everyone loves me. - I did it and it worked. Keep doing it even if you feel uncomfortable saying it at first. If you say it enough your mind will believe you. Because no matter what people say, in the end we believe what we tell ourselves to be true.
And you are unique as one person here already said. You have gifts and things to offer that you haven't discovered and no one has the gifts exactly the same way you do. You deserve love and friendship, and you will have it again as it comes. You are just as worthy of love and friendship as anyone else. You just made a mistake.
Because you sound emotional and anxious, I think you may not want to do the affirmation, but I want you to do it for me, and for yourself, and for all the people who know you deserve the best. You just need to retrain your mind that you are loving and deserve love even if you don't feel it. We become what we tell ourselves.
You need to talk to your counselor because your parents aren't hearing you. And if you need to come back to this board, please come back.
Don't do anything like trying to give up, as someone said you can damage your body, and in the worst case survive and have brain damage or be in a coma with no way to reach out for help.
Throw that idea out of your mind right now as an option. You are going to start working on yourself right now. First you begin that affirmation right away, and say it with strong will and attention. You will see how it changes how easy you smile at others, how you think, and how you feel, and how others begin responding to you. Second, you go see your school counselor, and then if you need to come to this board everyday, you do that.
If you post and no one has anything nice to say, post again, and ask for only compassionate, guiding posts from others.
You are special in ways you don't even know, because no two people are alike. As time goes by and you begin to love yourself and discover new friends and what makes you happy and your goals in life, you will see how important you are, and how many lives you will affect in your lifetime. Right now because you're young you don't see this.
And I'm not hearing enough support from home, so get busy and make an appointment with your counselor.
xoxo
Jenny, many people have this happen at some point in there life, they make a mistake and say or do something, and they lose their friends or even get cut off from their family.
Try to apologize one more time and let them know you know you made a mistake, and you're very sorry and you'd like back into the group. Ask one of the kinder friends if they can help you get back in with your friends. If it doesn't happen, trust me, other friends will come along, and what many of us know, that you don't know, is that life is so full of change. You will make new friends at some point. It's impossible that you wouldn't.
There is so much ahead. If you've told your parents you're depressed and need help and they are responding as you say, you need to go to a school counselor and tell them what you told us. Your parents attitude isn't helping you feel understood or secure and that's not your fault.
Since you've tried to give up four times you may need an anti-depressant until you get more stable. Many people also go through unstable periods in their life, and then it passes and life is good again.
When I was younger I was very unhappy because of the way 'certain women' treated me. I was very depressed and angry. I talked with this 80 year old man who was a minister at my church. He had counseled people for 50 years. He told me to repeat this affirmation over and over when I had spare time. I have told others on this board this affirmation.
It is: I love everyone and everyone loves me. - I did it and it worked. Keep doing it even if you feel uncomfortable saying it at first. If you say it enough your mind will believe you. Because no matter what people say, in the end we believe what we tell ourselves to be true.
And you are unique as one person here already said. You have gifts and things to offer that you haven't discovered and no one has the gifts exactly the same way you do. You deserve love and friendship, and you will have it again as it comes. You are just as worthy of love and friendship as anyone else. You just made a mistake.
Because you sound emotional and anxious, I think you may not want to do the affirmation, but I want you to do it for me, and for yourself, and for all the people who know you deserve the best. You just need to retrain your mind that you are loving and deserve love even if you don't feel it. We become what we tell ourselves.
You need to talk to your counselor because your parents aren't hearing you. And if you need to come back to this board, please come back.
Don't do anything like trying to give up, as someone said you can damage your body, and in the worst case survive and have brain damage or be in a coma with no way to reach out for help.
Throw that idea out of your mind right now as an option. You are going to start working on yourself right now. First you begin that affirmation right away, and say it with strong will and attention. You will see how it changes how easy you smile at others, how you think, and how you feel, and how others begin responding to you. Second, you go see your school counselor, and then if you need to come to this board everyday, you do that.
If you post and no one has anything nice to say, post again, and ask for only compassionate, guiding posts from others.
You are special in ways you don't even know, because no two people are alike. As time goes by and you begin to love yourself and discover new friends and what makes you happy and your goals in life, you will see how important you are, and how many lives you will affect in your lifetime. Right now because you're young you don't see this.
And I'm not hearing enough support from home, so get busy and make an appointment with your counselor.
xoxo
What are some good books to read?
Mrs. Culle
I read alot and I have unfortunatly run out of things to read. I need some new ideas about what to read. I like all diffrent kinds of books. From Girly Girls to Vampires to Witches and Wizards. So please if you could give me some suggestons. :)
Answer
the twilight saga - im sure uve heard what thats about
-twilight
-new moon
-eclipse
-breaking dawn
the uglies series - 300 years in the future ppl get a surgery that
makes them pretties and this is what tally young blood hashas wanted ever since she was a little. but soon she will have to choose between her fantasy and her friend
-uglies
-pretties
-specials
-extras
Everlost- 2 teenagers get into a head on crash and go into a limbo called everlost. not heaven or hell. there are many twists. and a HUGE twist at the end.
- there will be a movie and series comming out soon.
Fear street nights - group of friends that sneek out at night and call them selves tha night ppl. out of noware ppl start getting killed by mysterious means. this one had me turning the pages all night long!
-midnight secrets
-moonlight games
-darkest dawn
fear street novels - AWESOME mysteries (not a series, just a bunch of page turners, that r by the same author and keepp you gessing)
-all night party
-the confession
-the gift
-the first date
-the rich girl
-switched
-the halloween party
-the new girl
-the best friend
-the stepsister
-secret admirer
-killers kiss
- there are thousands
Crank series- a girl gets into drugs and it ruined her life and it has a awesome endin! and the author (ellen hopkins) is comming out with a third in 2010 called fallout.
-crank
-glass
Identical - it too is by ellen hopkins and its about two (identical) twins. with there mom running for congress woman she is never around so the dad starts sexually abusing kaeleigh. and she has just listens to him, no matter what-in the beginning that is- and it too is a real eye opener. i would love to tell you more but i am afraid of saying to much
burned - awesome book about a mormon (idk how to spell that) that doesnt like the laws/rules of her religion and decides to try to be herself but her abuseive father says no and she goes to live with her aunt and .......... well cant tell you the rest lol.
her are some more:
Forever
Born Confused
Vampire High
The Clique
Ink Heart
Gossip Girl
Wuthering Hights
Vampire Kisses
Amy
Diary of Anne Frank
The Princess Diaries
I Would Tell You I love You But then I would Have To Kill You
The Truth About Forever
Just Listen
Around the World in 80 Days
Go Ask Alice
Girls In Love
It Happened To Nancy
I Am The Wallpaper
Read My Lips
Perfect
Cut
Life in the Fat Lane
The Girls
What My Mother Doesnât Know
Blue Is For Nightmares
Reckless
The Perks of Being a Wallflower
Such a Pretty Girl
Anatomy Of a Boyfriend
Impulse
My Sisters Keeper
Been There Done That
Someone Like You
Shacked Up
Love Sick
Lost It
Dreamland
Just Listen
Good Girls
Story Of a Girl
Just Like That
Don't Die My Love
Stoner and Spazz
13 Little Blue Envelopes
This Lullaby
Silver Is For Secrets
Stuck In Neutral
You Dont Know Me
To Kill A Mockingbird
Pride And Predjudice
The Giver
Romeo and Juliet
The Awakening
A Street Car Named Desire
Crystal Lies
Dancing Naked
Gone With The Wind
Stargirl
Thirteen
Just Between Us
Heidi
Vampire Academy
Red Is For Rememberence
Do Hard Things
Are You There God It's Me Margarete
TTYL
Till Death Do Us Part
Prep
Life Is Funny
Summer Girls
Keeping The Moon
the twilight saga - im sure uve heard what thats about
-twilight
-new moon
-eclipse
-breaking dawn
the uglies series - 300 years in the future ppl get a surgery that
makes them pretties and this is what tally young blood hashas wanted ever since she was a little. but soon she will have to choose between her fantasy and her friend
-uglies
-pretties
-specials
-extras
Everlost- 2 teenagers get into a head on crash and go into a limbo called everlost. not heaven or hell. there are many twists. and a HUGE twist at the end.
- there will be a movie and series comming out soon.
Fear street nights - group of friends that sneek out at night and call them selves tha night ppl. out of noware ppl start getting killed by mysterious means. this one had me turning the pages all night long!
-midnight secrets
-moonlight games
-darkest dawn
fear street novels - AWESOME mysteries (not a series, just a bunch of page turners, that r by the same author and keepp you gessing)
-all night party
-the confession
-the gift
-the first date
-the rich girl
-switched
-the halloween party
-the new girl
-the best friend
-the stepsister
-secret admirer
-killers kiss
- there are thousands
Crank series- a girl gets into drugs and it ruined her life and it has a awesome endin! and the author (ellen hopkins) is comming out with a third in 2010 called fallout.
-crank
-glass
Identical - it too is by ellen hopkins and its about two (identical) twins. with there mom running for congress woman she is never around so the dad starts sexually abusing kaeleigh. and she has just listens to him, no matter what-in the beginning that is- and it too is a real eye opener. i would love to tell you more but i am afraid of saying to much
burned - awesome book about a mormon (idk how to spell that) that doesnt like the laws/rules of her religion and decides to try to be herself but her abuseive father says no and she goes to live with her aunt and .......... well cant tell you the rest lol.
her are some more:
Forever
Born Confused
Vampire High
The Clique
Ink Heart
Gossip Girl
Wuthering Hights
Vampire Kisses
Amy
Diary of Anne Frank
The Princess Diaries
I Would Tell You I love You But then I would Have To Kill You
The Truth About Forever
Just Listen
Around the World in 80 Days
Go Ask Alice
Girls In Love
It Happened To Nancy
I Am The Wallpaper
Read My Lips
Perfect
Cut
Life in the Fat Lane
The Girls
What My Mother Doesnât Know
Blue Is For Nightmares
Reckless
The Perks of Being a Wallflower
Such a Pretty Girl
Anatomy Of a Boyfriend
Impulse
My Sisters Keeper
Been There Done That
Someone Like You
Shacked Up
Love Sick
Lost It
Dreamland
Just Listen
Good Girls
Story Of a Girl
Just Like That
Don't Die My Love
Stoner and Spazz
13 Little Blue Envelopes
This Lullaby
Silver Is For Secrets
Stuck In Neutral
You Dont Know Me
To Kill A Mockingbird
Pride And Predjudice
The Giver
Romeo and Juliet
The Awakening
A Street Car Named Desire
Crystal Lies
Dancing Naked
Gone With The Wind
Stargirl
Thirteen
Just Between Us
Heidi
Vampire Academy
Red Is For Rememberence
Do Hard Things
Are You There God It's Me Margarete
TTYL
Till Death Do Us Part
Prep
Life Is Funny
Summer Girls
Keeping The Moon
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